Hello, much neglected masses...or rather the two people that read my creative writing blog.
I'm currently working on a short story for Kinky.com. Recently, I had stayed up in San Fransisco where I luckily got to scratch an itch I've had for a long time. That itch was for butt stuff.
See what I did there?
Lucky for my readers who don't come here for the hanky panky, I'm not going to wax poetic on my marvelous experiences with butts. However, I must warn you folks that the short story I'm working on does include butt stuff. Not too much of it. And no worries, the butts are all tastefully discussed. I'm using this story was a way to push my limits as a writer, as I have never written a short story. Also, I'm using this project as the vehicle through which I could touch on certain aspects of sexual realities.
Enjoy this sneak peak of "Butt Stuff: A Love Story"
The completed story will be posted on Kinky.com.
Mia
The Euphemistic Minister
Thursday, August 7, 2014
Meet and Greet
So it's about time I shittily keep my word. Internet eons ago (months really) I made a promise to fans that I would host a meet and greet once I reached 10k followers. And then I reached 10k followers, but a date was hastily set without much forethought. With the burden of not having planned, the date came and went. Shitty Mia, being shitty. To lower my shit stock, I planned ahead and made sure that every calendar I had had allocated time just for this meet and greet.
At long last, the Mia Li Meet and Greet will happen on Thursday August 14. Prepare to be underwhelmed. Seriously though, this is my excuse to picnic at a beautiful park in San Diego. I just have to sit about for two hours playing my ukulele contemplating what the hell I'm going to do if I have x amount of sandwiches left over.
Please come by. Say hi. And chill for a wee bit. If you wanna talk books, I'm your gal.
I'll be pic-a-nicking on the West side of the Botanical Building from 3-5pm. I trust you folks know how to read a map.
Love,
Mia Li
At long last, the Mia Li Meet and Greet will happen on Thursday August 14. Prepare to be underwhelmed. Seriously though, this is my excuse to picnic at a beautiful park in San Diego. I just have to sit about for two hours playing my ukulele contemplating what the hell I'm going to do if I have x amount of sandwiches left over.
Please come by. Say hi. And chill for a wee bit. If you wanna talk books, I'm your gal.
I'll be pic-a-nicking on the West side of the Botanical Building from 3-5pm. I trust you folks know how to read a map.
Love,
Mia Li
Monday, July 7, 2014
Update
Whoops... Where did June go?
June was a rather eventful month for the porn biz. Politics yet again threaten the industry that
is home to thousands of happy performers and other biz workers. In case you missed it, check out Kinky.com's coverage of AB1576. Fingers crossed that this nonsense ends and
we can kinda sorta breath easy a little while longer before another politician
tries to rubs us out...in a bad way that is.
This past month I attended of a few meetings with several other adult
performer advocates to hopefully create enough momentum, something to help curb
this madness. I've been rather
apolitical most of my life because of the lack of actual importance in the
common man's beliefs, plights, what have you.
The AB1576 debacle from my standpoint reaffirms that certain politicians
clearly don't give a damn.
Moving on from the dark to the mildly awesome. June has been a month butt-stuffed with radio
shows and bush growing hijinks. I've
popped on LATalk Radio for Inside
the Industry hosted by the kind James Bartholet. Vivid Sirius XM Radio has been pretty sweet
having me on Dana Dearmond's Dirty Nerdy and the Christy Canyon
show. Also, Vivid SXM has offered me a
sweet opportunity, which you folks may be able to get in on.
On July 18 at 1pm PST, I will get to host one hour on Vivid
Radio 102 SXM with the topics of my choosing.
In total transparency, the topics I choose were kind of on the spot and hurried,
but I don't think you'll be disappointed.
For the first half hour I'll be chatting about Erotic Fanfiction; the
third quarter is about Foot Fetishes; the remainder of the show will cover the
Switch role in BDSM.
When I was exploring the world (a.k.a the Internet) as a
youth looking for fap material, I didn't really turn at all to video porn. Sure there was that one brilliant sex tape,
but often I didn't care to wank it to vid content because my imagination was so
much better. Instead, I ate up a ghastly
amount of erotic fan fiction. The
universes, characters, and settings that I loved from literature, movies, and
television were presented to me doing things too devious for original. Why not enjoy some ridiculous pairings like
Luna Lovegood and the Weasley twins on a rainy night on the floor of Weasleys'
Wizard Wheezes? Do not even get me
started on the original characters fan fiction writers create. Well written or not, these original fan
created fictions made my nethers go a tingle.
Foot fetishists fascinate me. Although I am not terribly opposed to having
my tootsies, soles, and arches worshipped, I am not a foot fetishist. What is it about feet that drive the folks
crazy? Spread toes, wrinkled soles, and
high arches are enough to send blood rushing down under for those who adore
feet. Tell me all about how this fetish
developed in your sexual appetites.
Regale me with some deliciously naughty stories of foot lovin.
The last topic that will be covered will be a discussion on
the switch bdsm scene role. Being switch
opens one up to both ends of the BDSM spectrum as well as all the dispositions
between. Switches have the ability to be
dominant as well as submission. Frankly
it's a double the pleasure, double the fun situation. Personally, some of my favorite Dommes are
switches. As a switch the dominance and
submission play is more dynamic in my experience. Dom/Dommes, subs, and switches are welcomed
to discuss this delightful scene role.
Of course, everyone is invited to call in.
I am really fucking excited to have this opportunity. Tune in and call in! Info is below.
Vivid Radio Sirius XM Channel 102
Vivid Virgins--July 18 at 1pm PST
Call in at 855-998-4843
Brenda and Howard: Labor Day
Note to the Reader: I hadn't realized that the next installation of the Brenda and Howard series has just been sitting in my blog folder waiting to be edited. Huzzah! I have done just that. If I had my way and in an alternate reality where I was a writer of sorts, I'd frame the Brenda and Howard series to track the entire pregnancy of Brenda. As it stands, I decided to skip ahead.
If you haven't read the previous Brenda and Howard bits here are the links.
1. Pabst Blue Ribbon and Smiling Mustard
2. Meet Brenda Part 1
3. Meet Brenda Part 2
4. I hear you breathing when you sleep
Labor Day
If you haven't read the previous Brenda and Howard bits here are the links.
1. Pabst Blue Ribbon and Smiling Mustard
2. Meet Brenda Part 1
3. Meet Brenda Part 2
4. I hear you breathing when you sleep
Labor Day
There were enough mylar balloons at
Brenda and Howard's baby shower to stock a clown convention. None of them were blue or pink. Brenda had decided that she didn't want to
find out the gender of the baby. She
didn't want to fill the soon-to-be nursery with a gender polarized color
scheme. The wrapping paper that
protruded from the recycling bin at Howard's in-laws were all neutral yellows,
greens, and purples.
As Howard walked the bin to the
curb, he sighed in relief that the shower was long over and that they had one
more night left with Brenda's family.
The trees that lined the sidewalk were clinging to the vibrancy of
summer, but the creeping hands of autumn leeched out the green. The leaves weren't quite crunchy yet, but the
chill of Labor Day evening was enough to raise the hairs on Howard's arm.
The close proximity to Brenda's
parents brought on another chill.
Upon their arrival days earlier, it
seemed that her father was finally able to put away his disproval of
Howard. Despite Howard's success as an
attorney, and his well-dressed, well-mannered ways, her father radiated a
subtle dislike or irritability toward Howard.
The man's lips always pinched into a severe line of neutrality whenever
Howard was around. The severity of line
deepened when Howard and he were alone.
This hidden-apparent disdain made Howard pucker for fear that this man
could see through him. Howard feared
that Brenda's father knew that their relationship was a bullshit farce for a
man too chicken shit to out himself. The
man's own stoic attitude toward his own marriage brought on Howard's
suspicions.
That
could be me in a few decades.
However, when he saw Howard flit
around like a nervous hummingbird at Brenda's beck and call, the tension
between the two men eased. The
subversively irate nature with which he addressed Howard appeared to have
dissipated. The noose Howard felt around
his neck finally loosened.
Luckily enough, Brenda's mother
begged off from joining the expecting couple for dinner. Naturally, her father followed suit. The excuse to do the whole visiting not
visiting thing relieved a knot between Howard's shoulder blades. It was bad enough pantomiming a romantic
relationship with Brenda without an audience.
They left on foot into town for dinner.
"Just like when we first
started dating."
"Hrm?" Howard was lost in
his own thoughts when Brenda broke the comfortable silence.
"We used to walk everywhere
when we started going out." She
smiled up at him as she said this.
Reflexively he smiled and wrapped his arm around her.
"Well, I couldn't help but
want to show you off," Howard admonished.
It was the damned truth. He hid
his frown behind her as he shrugged out of his coat and draped it over her
shoulders. Howard did this without
prompting thinking as he had on all the walks to the dates they had in that
town.
It's
what boyfriends do.
***
They had dinner at a diner. Red vinyl booths and that greasy spoon smell
filled the place. Brenda's cheeks were
blushed from the cold and pregnant vitality.
A grin split her face when a kid ran over to pop quarters into the
archaic juke box by the bar, where it had always been since she started going
there. This was where Howard first took
her out to dinner. This was where Howard
first kissed her. This was the diner
where Howard proposed and where she promptly choked on Coke and gurgled yes.
"Don't you-" her question
was cut off by an angry buzzing in Howard's coat pocket.
He held out his hand to have her
pass the phone.
"Don't I?..." His eyes were for the phone's screen, but
hers were trained on his face.
"Don't you remember all of the
memories we have here?"
"Of course,
darling." His fingers moved deftly
over the tiny screen, texting. Howard threw a radiant smile her way.
Brenda rubbed her foot leisurely on
Howard's calf. Her lips curved lovingly
as he worked on his phone. She
understood that his job was demanding in regard to the constant communication
with clients and coworkers.
Absentminded
you may be, Mr. Howard, I adore you.
Unbeknownst to Brenda, Howard was
managing his affair. Ten texts into the
baby shower earlier made him decide to end things with SPIN CLASS.
By the time his unsweetened ice tea
and her Sprite came, the torrid affair was ended.
Thursday, May 29, 2014
Throwback Thursday
Hello dear readers!
In honor of throwback Thursday, which is apparently a thing, I'm posting a piece I had written in college. Back in those days circa Fall 2011-Spring 2012 I joined the staff of the college newspaper. I didn't and still don't see myself as a news reporter or journalist at all, but rather an English major who simply wanted to write something. Eventually after several articles that had nothing to do with on or off campus current events I gained the title Evergreen Queen. Typically my writings erred on the side of general and random topics as a means to have a witty-ish title.
With that, I present to you:
How to Take a Dump
Throughout the course of one’s love life, a little heartbreak is inevitable. Some may never have to weather the storm of post-relationship depression, anger and tempestuous revenge-hunger, but for those of you that will have to and have had to…here’s some advice about how to take a dump:
Take a dump with friends: Being dumped is a tough, and often isolating, experience. Return to your social roots, your friends before Sam, Amanda or Charlie. They are the ones that knew you with all your quirks, habits, and impromptu celebrity impersonations. They will tolerate your wet works and then backhand slap you back to reality and self-worth. Friends are unafraid to tell you how simultaneously insane, awesome and obnoxious you are.
Take a dump with distractions: Losing what you thought was your other half is a disorienting thing. You begin to wonder if the things you loved were really the things you loved because the, one you loved, loved them. Thus you find yourself without the person that wrote up your itinerary for fun. Pick up new hobbies that will stimulate your mind and draw attention away from the gaping chasm in your chest, where your heart once was. These distractions may be fleeting hobby fads or something that leads you to your new lease on life. The point is to find things you like to do. Stalking your ex and making hate collages with old photos are not viable options.
Take a dump with confidence: So you’ve just been dumped and this could easily send you into a downward spiral of Häagen Daz ice cream and self-loathing. Don’t give in. Embrace yourself in your epicness. For x amount of time you’ve identified yourself with that other person to the point that he/she is another facet of you. Sure there’s a vacancy in your bed and/or social life, but there shouldn’t be an all-consuming loss of what makes you, you. Celebrate the fact that you are now a free spirit and that you are free to eat an entire pint of caramel cone Häagen Daz motivated by cravings and not by break up blues.
Here’s some advice about how not to take a dump:
Do not take a dump vocally: It’s fine and dandy to weep and rage to your inner circle of friends. However, tweeting, blogging, and ranting through a social media outlet will garner bad attention. You may win some sympathetic, empathetic comments and likes. But don’t dwell on the negative. If you must status-update, tweet or whatever, do so by focusing on the positive. Here’s an example status update, “Wow, I didn’t know how much room my tiny extra long twin bed had until last week. WIN!” or “So this is what it’s like not dipping into my roll-over points come Tuesday. Weird!”
Do not draw out a dumping with denial: You know when you’re being dumped. You may get dumped via email, text, tweet, Facebook message or even old fashioned face-to-face dumping. Do not pretend that you weren’t dumped and hold your breathe for the next four months waiting for the dumper to realize his/her wrong. This is a very painful way to take a dump. Take your dump as cleanly and maturely as possible. Don’t deny the dump because it’s real and the relationship is dead all the same, even if you pretend it isn’t. Accept what’s happening and move on.
Remember that taking a dump is a messy, painful, and, at times, stressful process. However, in the end you will come out whole, happy, and free.
- See more at: Original Source
In honor of throwback Thursday, which is apparently a thing, I'm posting a piece I had written in college. Back in those days circa Fall 2011-Spring 2012 I joined the staff of the college newspaper. I didn't and still don't see myself as a news reporter or journalist at all, but rather an English major who simply wanted to write something. Eventually after several articles that had nothing to do with on or off campus current events I gained the title Evergreen Queen. Typically my writings erred on the side of general and random topics as a means to have a witty-ish title.
With that, I present to you:
How to Take a Dump
Throughout the course of one’s love life, a little heartbreak is inevitable. Some may never have to weather the storm of post-relationship depression, anger and tempestuous revenge-hunger, but for those of you that will have to and have had to…here’s some advice about how to take a dump:
Take a dump with friends: Being dumped is a tough, and often isolating, experience. Return to your social roots, your friends before Sam, Amanda or Charlie. They are the ones that knew you with all your quirks, habits, and impromptu celebrity impersonations. They will tolerate your wet works and then backhand slap you back to reality and self-worth. Friends are unafraid to tell you how simultaneously insane, awesome and obnoxious you are.
Take a dump with distractions: Losing what you thought was your other half is a disorienting thing. You begin to wonder if the things you loved were really the things you loved because the, one you loved, loved them. Thus you find yourself without the person that wrote up your itinerary for fun. Pick up new hobbies that will stimulate your mind and draw attention away from the gaping chasm in your chest, where your heart once was. These distractions may be fleeting hobby fads or something that leads you to your new lease on life. The point is to find things you like to do. Stalking your ex and making hate collages with old photos are not viable options.
Take a dump with confidence: So you’ve just been dumped and this could easily send you into a downward spiral of Häagen Daz ice cream and self-loathing. Don’t give in. Embrace yourself in your epicness. For x amount of time you’ve identified yourself with that other person to the point that he/she is another facet of you. Sure there’s a vacancy in your bed and/or social life, but there shouldn’t be an all-consuming loss of what makes you, you. Celebrate the fact that you are now a free spirit and that you are free to eat an entire pint of caramel cone Häagen Daz motivated by cravings and not by break up blues.
Here’s some advice about how not to take a dump:
Do not take a dump vocally: It’s fine and dandy to weep and rage to your inner circle of friends. However, tweeting, blogging, and ranting through a social media outlet will garner bad attention. You may win some sympathetic, empathetic comments and likes. But don’t dwell on the negative. If you must status-update, tweet or whatever, do so by focusing on the positive. Here’s an example status update, “Wow, I didn’t know how much room my tiny extra long twin bed had until last week. WIN!” or “So this is what it’s like not dipping into my roll-over points come Tuesday. Weird!”
Do not draw out a dumping with denial: You know when you’re being dumped. You may get dumped via email, text, tweet, Facebook message or even old fashioned face-to-face dumping. Do not pretend that you weren’t dumped and hold your breathe for the next four months waiting for the dumper to realize his/her wrong. This is a very painful way to take a dump. Take your dump as cleanly and maturely as possible. Don’t deny the dump because it’s real and the relationship is dead all the same, even if you pretend it isn’t. Accept what’s happening and move on.
Remember that taking a dump is a messy, painful, and, at times, stressful process. However, in the end you will come out whole, happy, and free.
- See more at: Original Source
Tuesday, May 27, 2014
Linkstorm
Hello, darling readers.
A few things that I've been up to have popped up on the internet, and I thought it would be best to share with you folks.
Some of these may be older than others, but it's still all Mia Li goodness for you guys to enjoy. As more SFW things pop up online, I'll be sure to compile them in other Linkstorm installations on The Euphemistic Minister.
SimplySxy Interview
Skeet Society Interview
Behind Kink US Interview
AB1576: The Exodus of an Industry
And... a video that I made in college just because I can: Innocence
A few things that I've been up to have popped up on the internet, and I thought it would be best to share with you folks.
Some of these may be older than others, but it's still all Mia Li goodness for you guys to enjoy. As more SFW things pop up online, I'll be sure to compile them in other Linkstorm installations on The Euphemistic Minister.
SimplySxy Interview
Skeet Society Interview
Behind Kink US Interview
AB1576: The Exodus of an Industry
And... a video that I made in college just because I can: Innocence
Below you'll find an interview I recently did with AVN Live. Check it out and retweet the love.
Hope you like it!
Love,
Mia Li
Wednesday, May 7, 2014
Because Eargasms Are a Thing
Because Eargasms Are a Thing
The only concerts that I have been to are choir and band
high school concerts I have performed in and Toto in sixth grade. I went with my dad and his chums to see Toto
rock out. Luckily, this past weekend
through the generosity of the band Our Last Night I was able to really
experience live music. I attended their
tour concert with Chiodoos and other bands at SOMA down in San Diego.
Our Last Night according to Wikipedia is a post-hardcore
band with five members. Trevor Wentworth
(vocals), Matt Wentworth (guitar, vocals), Alex "Woody" Woodrow
(bass), and Tim Molloy (drums). They
were briefly signed with Epitaph records, but are currently independent. Although the band has been around since 2007,
I discovered them via a Spiked Nation upload of
their Adele "Skyfall"
cover. Compelled by their rock
transformation of the epic James Bond theme, their covers found a comfortable
place on my workout playlist. This past
fall they released their album Oak
Island, which is
definitely worth a good listen with your car windows rolled up because
listening to it will prompt you to drum violently on your steering wheel. I can say this from experience.
Although I haven't attended many live concerts outside of
orchestral music, I have heard many recorded live performances. Many of these can unfortunately sound so far
from the studio recording, that it's rather off putting. This couldn't be further from the case with
Our Last Night.
They were spot on.
All the members of the band proved that, not only do they
convey that they are bloody passionate about what they do, they are really
really true to form live. Throughout the
concert, I would find myself closing my eyes just letting the music roll over
me and really recognize that they don't bullshit around. The sound live as they are recorded.
How the shit can a person sing so well while traipsing
around stage like an acrobat tethered to a mike? I know not.
The members of the band were animated despite the at times so-so San Diego crowd. I love seeing the non-vocals oriented members
of the band singing with their bandmates even if there isn't a mike pressed to
their mouth. The comfort and pleasure
that the members had in performing with one another was evident in their
interactions on and off stage.
Fortunately, the band had more time than anticipated in
their set, which allowed them to play more off of Oak Island,
their previous records, and a cover.
Their Katy Perry cover of "Dark Horse" certainly livened up be
crowd. Truly amazing how they took a
very pop song and translated it to suit their unique music and performance
style.
I don't particularly know the tech terms for music and stage
mumbo jumbo, but the balance of their vocals, guitars, and percussion were
extremely well executed. You could hear
all aspects of the band clearly and appreciate everything the each individual
brought to the stage.
The sheer physical force of the actual performance was a
tactile experience in itself. Speakers
that broadcast the plucking of strings, vibration of vocal chords, and striking
of drums penetrated each person in the crowd.
Live music, when done right, is a whore that flits through the bodies of
a mass and leaves everyone satiated.
That awe and glow a person experiences after a good O is
certainly comparable to what you'll experience once their set wrapped. You're not quite sure what happened, but it
was bloody good and you want more. Hell,
even your ears ring in both scenarios.
Thanks, Our Last Night, for convincing me that live music is
definitely a good good thing. I can only
hope that you, dear reader, will get an opportunity to listen to these fine
folks live. If you do attend one of
their concerts, stick around and say hullo because they are extremely receptive
and appreciative of their fans.
Definitely check out Our Last Night's
YouTube channel, but for now enjoy their cover of Katy Perry's "Dark
Horse."
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